Eulogy Stories : Dragonfly

Eulogy Stories : Dragonfly

The dragonfly is particularly useful for those who are distressed by the fact that their loved one has not made contact with them since their death.

Eulogy Story : Dragonfly

Once, in a little pond, in the muddy water under the lily pads, there lived a little water beetle in a community of water beetles. They lived a simple and comfortable life in the pond with few disturbances and interruptions. Once in a while, sadness would come to the community when one of their fellow beetles would climb the stem of a lily pad and would never be seen again. They knew when this happened; their friend was dead, gone forever.

Then, one day, one little water beetle felt an irresistible urge to climb up that stem. However, he was determined that he would not leave forever. He would come back and tell his friends what he had found at the top. When he reached the top and climbed out of the water onto the surface of the lily pad, he was so tired, and the sun felt so warm, that he decided he must take a nap. As he slept, his body changed and when he woke up, he had turned into a beautiful blue-tailed dragonfly with broad wings and a slender body designed for flying.

So, fly he did! And, as he soared he saw the beauty of a whole new world and a far superior way of life to what he had never known existed. Then he remembered his beetle friends and how they were thinking by now he was dead. He wanted to go back to tell them, and explain to them that he was now more alive than he had ever been before. His life had been fulfilled rather than ended. But, his new body would not go down into the water. He could not get back to tell his friends the good news. Then he understood that their time would come, when they, too, would know what he now knew. So, he raised his wings and flew off into his joyous new life!

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My sister passed last week.

My sister passed last week. The following day I was sitting outside with a friend of mine and she saw a butterfly and called the butterfly "Grammy". I asked her why she did that and she told me that when her Grammy died, she decided she became a butterfly. I said to her, in that case, then my sister, Olive, is a dragonfly since I have a fondness for dragonflies. At the same time, I turned around, and a beatiful dragonly soared by and I know it was my sister. I have been trying to find something to read at her funeral tomorrow and my search has ended here. What a perfect way to add to my dragonfly story!

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Who is the author?

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The short answer is - we don't know, and we don't think anyone else knows either.

The long answer is - it was possibly used for the first time a couple of hundred years ago, when a church minister made the story up to illustrate his sermon.

It's certainly been in use for many years, and has appeared in many children's story collections.

Only yesterday I heard it quoted by an actor on TV who was acting the part of a 'minister' taking a school assembly. There was no credit for it so presumably the TV researchers couldn't track down an author.